When a local offers a hand, a Japanese traveler may begin a bow while also reaching to shake it. Head down, hand forward. The other person tilts a little too, and one greeting briefly acquires two different directions.
JAPANESE ARUARU
The Handshake
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Last Words
A Japanese traveler may order in another language, then finish with an automatic “arigatou.” An attempt to try again produces another “arigatou.” The server has already handed over the cup. The thank-you is taking longer than the order.
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A Table for One
A Japanese traveler arrives alone and holds up one finger when asked how many. Then comes an order for three dishes. The server takes another look at the entrance, but nobody else appears. The only arrivals are the plates.
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Exact Change
At the checkout, a Japanese traveler may spread unfamiliar coins across their palm. The cashier points to one, and the traveler studies the rest. Somewhere along the way, a simple payment starts to look like two people solving a tiny puzzle.
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Passing Courtesy
Hold a door for a group of Japanese travelers, and you may get a little bow from each person passing through. The person holding it nods back every time. By the last traveler, their neck has had more to do than the hand holding the door.
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A Matter of Figures
When the bill arrives, Japanese travelers can end up holding a small meeting, calculators out. Everyone has the same bill, but a different answer for the tip. They ordered in no time. When the server returns, the meeting is still in session.
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